As you read this my people, I am a dead man walking. My nights recently have been the worst ever since I was born. The woman I thought was going to be the mother of my children misrepresented herself to me.
I visited a top restaurant in Lagos back in January, 2015 where I met my current girlfriend. Truth be told, it was a one night stand that sort of just blossomed into a serious relationship. Because for the first time in my adult life in Lagos, I met a great looking woman who wasn’t desperate to lock down a well to-do guy.
I am 32 years old, my girl is 28. I have a well paid job, I live in Lekki. It was until I started
dating Yemisi that I realized I wanted to settle down and start my own family. I had been living like a young guy enjoying my oil money.
Before we got serious, I and Yemisi talked about everything – marriage goals, career, kids, extended families. We were brutally honest with each other and shared ‘secrets’, everything about our past relationships. I never felt happier and more fulfilled waking up in the mornings and dressing up to leave for work knowing I was going to see my babe every evening.
Yemisi never spent a night at my place no matter how much I pressured her. I took it that it meant she was well disciplined and sincerely had no reason to worry my head. Afterall I saw her whenever I wanted. The days were all ours to enjoy and get naughty in each other’s arms. It seemed as though we were perfect for each other.
This woman is kinky! On her own, whenever we made love, Yemi will take photos of us in the heat of the moment because according to her, she needed something to remind her of me till we stay together again.
I was so in love and very fulfilled! Yemi met my family and the handful of friends that I keep. I never got to meet hers except for her best friend who came around to pick her from my place once or twice.
Last week, out of the blues, Yemisi showed up at my place panicking and in tears. She was shaking. I was trying to get her to calm down when she started telling me that the last 21 months have been the best days of her life. How I am a perfect man and she wishes she had met me sooner. Then she asked me to listen to what she has to tell me no matter what.
Yemisi told me she has been married for 4 years to another man in this same Lagos! No kids yet.
That she and her husband had become frustrated with each other and their marriage, They were not agreeing on so many things and were having many conflicts. The night we first met at the restaurant, she and him had had a very heated argument, he abandoned the house for her, she left the house as well to go chill out, met me and ended up in my bed.
Well, her husband has found out she was cheating on him, he had seen our N@kkd pictures, flew into a rage, and threw her out of his house! He’s threatening fire and brimstone that their marriage is over.
She’s currently staying with one of her aunts in Surulere while the family tries to make peace. That at this point in her life though, she doesn’t really care much if he doesn’t agree to take her back. She has realized I am the one she truly loves.
Because she didn’t want me to hear the story from anyone else, she came to tell me herself.
I was way too shocked to say anything else till Yemisi left my house. I told my family and friends. They are all in shock as well.
I haven’t talked to Yemisi since she came to confess. She hasn’t called me either. What do I do?